Showing posts with label Liberia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Liberia. Show all posts

Friday, August 14, 2015

Ma Mary's House

****Update-- We did it! Raised all the money needed to start Ma Mary's foundation. Thanks to all who gave and prayed.****


If you know me, if you have talked to me at any time over the last 7 years, then it is likely you have heard me rave about Ma Mary. (In fact, I recently wrote another blog about Mary, you can read that here.) Mary is my Liberian Ma-- but she is SO MUCH MORE-- she is a prayer warrior, Liberian chef extraordinaire, and a cultural advocate. She has been the glue that holds Orphan Relief and Rescue (ORR) together in all circumstances. Over the years ORR has hosted countless guests, Ma Mary is always behind the scenes. Yes, she cooks, but she also finds the best deals at the market, cleans, organizes, facilitates, accommodates and prays non-stop. If you have ever visited the ORR team house in Liberia, I guarantee that Mary has not only filled your belly, she has filled your heart as well as covered you in prayers. She has gracefully welcomed so many into our home, now is the time for us to help her to have a home of her own. 




Currently Mary lives in a house that is not hers. She saved for years and was able to buy some land. Land-business is tricky in Liberia. Even though she holds the deed, until something is built on the land she is at risk of loosing it. It will cost about $5000 to build the foundation of her house. This stage of building needs to be done all at once so the foundation is strong and even. After the foundation is set Mary can continue to build on it as she is able. It would take her a VERY LONG TIME to save the amount needed for the foundation. We can help her with this. She deserves it.



My plea is to everyone who has ever met Mary, everyone who has eaten her food, everyone who has been blessed by her prayers, (or by hearing her story here)-- Please help! If we all give a little I know we can do this. Follow this link to the donation page. (It is tax deductible!) Thanks!


Mary in the kitchen.


Friday, October 31, 2014

"God is answering our prayers!"

I just got off the phone with my Liberian Ma, Mary. I do not have the words to describe how much this woman means to me. Throughout my years in Liberia she was my confidant, teacher, chef, shoulder-to-cry-on, cultural interpreter, prayer warrior, movie-watching-buddy and friend. I miss her more that anyone else I know in Liberia, sometimes so much it hurts. So, when I heard her giggling, happy voice this morning over the scratchy phone line, my heart was happy. I was talking to her from the cozy comfort of my American bed-- she is in the middle of a war-zone-- yet I could hear the light in her voice and it lit me up all these thousands of miles away. 

Mary and I together in the streets of Monrovia in 2012.

Mary and I talked for just a few minutes-- she assured me that even though she had to move to a different community because of so many people dying of Ebola in her own, she was safe and healthy. She even had a friend from church die of Ebola and now her entire family is in quarantine. She said that the Liberian president made an announcement this week that "Ebola is reducing in Liberia" and that "God is answering our prayers." Yet she went on to discuss how Liberians need to continue to be vigilant in keeping up health and sanitary standards so that this outbreak does not see a resurgence. She said that even though rainy season is coming to an end and the hot Liberian sun is burning down, everyone in Liberia is wearing long sleeves and pants to keep safe.

This is the story of so many in West Africa right now. I love that Mary can see the hope in the middle of the storm. In faith, she is praising God for answered prayers even as people she knows, her own life, continues to be affected by this disease. She can see the big picture, the thing I have to keep telling myself-- God is bigger than Ebola. 

The WHO did announce this week that the number of Ebola infections in Liberia seems to be slowing. But this does not mean we stop our vigilant prayers, miracles are still needed and this fight is not over. But today, I choose to rejoice with Ma Mary-- God is answering our prayers!

Thursday, October 23, 2014

something scarier than ebola

I have been quietly sitting back these last few weeks-- watching the world react to the latest Ebola news-- at times frustrated, at times entertained, at times humiliated. It is mind-blowing to me, how uninformed, dis-compassionate, and judgmental people can be. We are talking about our human family here. West Africa... South Africa... Canada... Europe... America...Texas... all are human beings, members of a global family. We bleed the same and hurt the same and care the same and are all equally vulnerable to a microscopic organism that has the world on alert. But there is something scarier than the Ebola virus. Something that is taking the world by storm and unfortunately up to this point, I would say it is winning.

FEAR.

Four little letters that when joined together bring panic, judgement, and rash behaviors.

Fear is scarier than Ebola. We can not let an epidemic of fear paralyze us. Jeremy Writebol, the son of Ebola survivor, Nancy Writebol, said, "Compassion must proceed fear." Yes! Ebola is scary, but we have the tools to combat it. Reacting in fear and panic makes things worse, not better. In fact, I would strongly argue that, reacting in fear and panic is when the most awful mistakes are made. As a nurse I am trained in critical thinking, in standing back and assessing a situation, in gathering the needed data and acting on it in a practical way. Sometimes (most times) you don't have the answer or know how things are going to turn out, but you cautiously walk forward. When we are truly knowledgeable about a situation-- not flying off the hype of the most recent panic-inducing news report-- that is when we can react in confidence. We know there is a risk. We know there is a big scary world out there. But we don't have to react in fear. Fear is not going to fix anything.

I've said it here before and I still believe it-- God is bigger than Ebola. The Bible says that, "perfect love drives out fear." If you find yourself drowning in fear today, I urge you to ask God for help. If you are not comfortable with that, ask me, or a friend you trust to pray with/for you. Worry and fear do not add a single minute to your life. Walk forward in the knowledge that God is in control. Even if it feels that way, the world is not spinning uncontrollably.

Get the facts, make a plan, be cautious and take precautions, but do not let fear be the controlling factor in your life.

Below are some related links--

Don't let this guy's quirky style distract you, he's got some good things to say--
Ebola: What IS Terrifying (video)

Don't Worry, Be Rational: Why Extreme Fear of Ebola is Bad For Your Health

Threats to Americans, ranked (by actual threat instead of media hype)



Friday, September 12, 2014

Shining as lights...

Today I find myself sitting in the El Paso airport, sipping an overpriced, yet delicious coffee, and skimming the WHO's Ebola Response Roadmap as I wait for my flight home. 

Ebola has caused so much change. 

I should not linger too long on the changes in my own life. Instead of preparing to return to Liberia in a few weeks, I now feel commissioned with a new call to spread the word about the current situation there. To spread the word of the enormous and ever-growing needs. To spread stories of entire families that are dying and babies that are dying because their pregnant mothers can not find a hospital to have a c-section and friends of mine who are now refugees in their own country because their neighbors have ebola and children who are being orphaned and an entire region that is in a downward spiral, out of control. And all of it should be preventable. That's the worst part. It didn't have to get like this. 

Lives are changing in Liberia. The country was, as Liberians say, "coming up." Things were getting better, at least on the surface, for the country as it rebuilt after years of civil war. Children were graduating from high school and starting college-- now schools are closed indefinitely. Men were finding jobs, they were at least finding a way to make a little money each day and provide for their families-- now community quarantines are in order and the price of food has quadrupled. Women were starting to have dreams for their children's futures, for their own-- now everything has come to a standstill. 

The normal cadence of life and death-- greeting others with a handshake, a finger snap, crowded cars full of promise, caring for loved ones who are sick, gathering around the one who is lost-- everything has changed. The only thing on everyone's tongue is Ebola. Death and despair are everywhere. 

Thankfully, Liberians are survivors. They are fighters. As a nation, they have already survived war and hunger. They've struggled, but they've survived. I have to choose to believe they can survive this fight as well. It is a different fight. The enemy can not be seen. The enemy is not the ill person dying outside the clinic, but the invisible virus within. 

I also have to choose to believe, and claim it for all to hear, God is bigger than Ebola! He is bigger than the despair. He can pick this little country, the entire region, up out of this pit and bring restoration... healing... refreshing... peace. 

I believe God can move in ways that we do not understand. I believe He could speak the word and the Ebola virus would dissolve and be no more. I also believe that He uses us, He wants to use us in the process. He calls us to action, to help the hurting, to give, to pray. He builds us up and makes us stronger-- all of us-- through the process of taking steps of faith and choosing to believe. Choosing to act. Choosing to make changes that may not make sense or seem practical, yet lead to deeper faith, deeper fellowship of community. We need each other. And today, West Africa needs us.

Last Sunday I had the honor of sharing about the current situation in Liberia at my parent's church, Christ Community Church, in Alamogordo, NM. As I was preparing, God reminded me of a passage in Philippians (chap 2)--

"So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross."


We have been called to be united, to be of one mind, to look out for other's interests over our own (for Christ's sake)... even to death. I know that I don't live up to that, but I do not feel condemned by these verses, instead I feel encouraged to action (even a small action, like writing this blog).

The passage goes on to say—


"Do all things without grumbling or disputing, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world..."

I think an entire book could be written of my grumbles and complaints alone. The current situation in West Africa puts my troubles into perspective, I have much to be thankful for. But, we do indeed live in a crooked and twisted generation. The problems of this world are not limited to West Africa-- Americans are being beheaded in Iraq, Christians are being tortured and imprisoned, countries are at war, diseases rage throughout the world, and there is so much more! Liberia is close to my heart and so it is where a lot of my thoughts and prayers go, but the point I want to make here is, are we shining like lights in the world? Wherever in the world we may be?

If my grumbling and complaining is all that others hear from me, the answer is no. I am scared for West Africa, it is not easy for me to hear the constantly horrific reports coming out of there. It is also hard for me to share it. I like to share good news, don't we all? Unfortunately, the news is not always good, yet I am called to share it the same. The world is a dark place, yet I am called to shine as a light to it. We all are.


Please shine with me today. Spread the word. Share this blog. Grab the hand of a loved one and pray together for those hurting in the world. Miracles can happen. We are part of it. 


"Be the change that you wish to see in the world." -Gandhi

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Spread the word.

It has been 18 months since I last opened this page and started typing. Eighteen months since I packed up and moved home from Africa to (re)start in America. Those months have been filled with transition, learning, hibernating a bit, being refreshed, traveling, family, laughter, tears and much prayer. I moved back into my house, started working again as an ICU nurse, settled back into my phenomenal church family, dealt with the death of three dear family members, continued to volunteer for Orphan Relief and Rescue, and traveled A LOT-- including three short(er) trips back to Liberia.

These 18 months have been filled with much reflection, but I have not felt, for lack of a better word, inspired, to put those thoughts into words that I could share. Lately, God has been speaking to me about using my words again. I've been reminded that my words matter more than I know.

And then a few weeks ago there was one word that rung loudly in all of our ears-- EBOLA. I was last in Liberia in June, and at that time Ebola was a quiet whisper in the trees. I am shocked at the difference only two months makes. Ebola used to be "that thing they make outbreak movies about." Now it is a real and deadly threat to hundreds that I hold dear (and countless more.) I spend more time than I should reading status updates and articles coming out of the effected zone. I receive phone calls from my Liberian friends telling me how scared they are. Multiple people have told me that they think of me every time they hear the word. Everywhere I go I am asked about it-- sometimes I feel like Ebola is all I talk about.

I am not physically in Liberia right now, but my broken heart remains there, and I feel split in half. Due to this state of emergency, it is not possible for me to travel there. I find that this furthers the divide inside my heart as I both long to be there helping the growing need, and am deeply relieved that I am not there, which leads to this cycle of guilt and relief that at times seems more than I can bear. I feel helpless. I feel that I've abandoned those that I've promised to rescue. I don't know what to do. Over and over again I've come to the conclusion that not only is prayer the only thing I can do, it is the best thing. And so I pray. I pray, and I ask others to pray, and I ask anyone reading this to please stop reading and say a prayer right now for healing in the land of Liberia, in all of West Africa.

Yesterday I was once again wrestling with all of this, asking God, "what can I do?" When I felt Him say, "Use your words" and "Spread the word." And immediately I was reminded of this old dusty blog site, a forum I have long neglected.

Today, even though I am not there, I dust off the placard that states, 'Deb in Liberia,' so that I can spread the word-- Ebola is ravaging a country I call home. I can not carry this burden by myself. Please join me in praying for a miracle and keep watching here for updates and prayer points as this crisis continues.